My very dear, very old friend, Jamie Sigler, whom I love and adore for her openness, honestly, kindness, loyalty, and realness, has joined forces with her great friend Jenna Parris to start her next chapter, a must-listen podcast called Mama Said! What’s better than listening and feeling included in a conversation on the challenges and celebrations of motherhood from moms who really get it!?! I find that women, when embarking on motherhood, feel so isolated, and sometimes guilty for their struggles, but Jenna and Jamie are here to let you know, it’s all normal and it’s all okay. We are in this together, and it ain’t easy! Tune in and join their journey of hot topics that arise along the way- laugh, cry, and get involved. These ladies are here to stay..
Read moreMama-of-the-Moment: The Women of Johanna Ortiz
How have your children inspired your creations and overall brand at Johanna Ortiz?
Being a mother has been one of the greatest gifts in life. Not just for the brand, but they have taught us the purest love one can ever experience, and that fulfills all aspects of our lives. They give us strength to keep going every single day.
Why did you decide to make a mommy and me collection? Are you going to expand this collection going forward?
It was so fun. At the Atelier we are all mothers, from the design department to finance. It’s part of our life, so we decided to start the line and are so excited about it. It’s really cute to see a Johanna Ortiz dress in a "mini me" version, with little ruffles and bows. We want to continue with the line, evolving with the new collections of the brand.
Pay it forward, who are your favorite womenswear and childrens' designers that act as inspiration for you?
We love Maisonette or Bonpoint.
Who are your favorite local designers in Colombia?
I respect and admire Olga Piedrahita.
What are the next steps for Johanna Ortiz?
We are constantly evolving and growing. We want to establish ourselves as a relevant international House from Latin America to the world.
JOHANNA ORTIZ
How you find a balance between work life and managing your families?
That’s the word: "balance." I try to be really mindful of the moment I’m living, so if WE are with our families, WE fully present and enjoy that moment. When I’m at the Atelier, I am really concentrated and excited about designing.
When you travel, where is your favorite family destination?
Our home in Cartagena or Key Biscayne, we love boating.
How do each of you carve out “me” time? What do you do during that time?
Every morning I have ‘me’ time. Time alone to reset, be grateful, meditate, be in silence, have breakfast, read news, do some exercise. These moments give me perspective of where I am standing, and are sacred to me. But then my real balance time is being up with my three boys and husband every evening, having dinner, it keeps my heart smiling and that is the best medicine.
What values do you each hope to instill in your children?
Being respectful to every person that comes their way, honesty, and to follow their dreams, working hard to reach them, but it’s okay to fail while you are in that search.
CATALINA LONDOÑO
How you find a balance between work life and managing your families?
Always quality (time) vs. quantity: Being fully present and enjoying every second I am with them, without worrying about work. In the same way, I love my job and am very focused and productive, but always having fun and making the best out of it. My work makes me be a better mom!
How do each of you carve out “me” time? What do you do during that time?
Again, quality time is what really matters when it comes to “Me” time:
Every morning I take a couple of hours to work out, enjoy a massage, connect with the world and be mindful and grateful about the new day ahead of me.
Every week, my husband and I try to go on a “date” and have some much needed couple, “adult” time together. I really look forward to it all week!
Johanna, Paola and I were first friends before we worked together so when we travel for work, we always go for nice dinners, enjoy a glass of wine and celebrate life and friendship. Girls nights out are definitely a must “Me” time too!
When you travel, where is your favorite family destination?
St Tropez in the summer! It is now a tradition in my family and every year is even more magical than the one before.
What values do you each hope to instill in your children?
I always remind them to be grateful for what they have and to share, love and care for those in need. To respect others, and be humble by accepting everyone’s differences and learning from them. To be strong and work hard to reach their dreams!
What are some of your favorite kids' brands?
Love the classical European brands like Jacadi, Bonpoint, Marie-Chantal, Stella MacCartney Kids! But I have a thing for traditional Spanish kids brands too like La Coqueta and Nanos.
PAOLA ORTIZ
How you find a balance between work life and managing your families?
My children are my drive. They are behind my everyday will to live and work. When I have quality time with them, work just seems easy. Loving my family and loving my work is the perfect balance.
How do you carve out “me” time? What do you do during that time?
Three years from now I made a resolution, make some ‘me’ time. It’s super important and is all about activities that enrich my life: doing exercise, cooking, playing tennis, meditation.
When you travel, where is your favorite family destination?
Florida. I love the beach. I plan every year a special vacation with my children, so they can see the world and different cultures. It’s our tradition.
What values do you each hope to instill in your children?
Respect all, work hard, and family is first.
Mama-of-the-Moment: The Line's Vanessa Traina
Describe yourself in 4 words…
Loving, loyal, dedicated, compassionate.
Tell us the story of how you launched The Line.
A childhood friend of mine was interested in developing a concept in the fashion and retail space and brought me on to conceptualize it. The idea actually started at the brand level and The Line was intended to be a launching pad for these new brands. We wanted to create a home of warmth, intimacy and discovery where we could easily introduce new concepts. It can take time for new brands to garner attention or attract an audience and by surrounding them in this world of familiarity there was an immediate traction.
How do your children inspire you in your business?
As a child and an adult, I have been so inspired by my mother. She is incredibly hard working and passionate about what she does and I am grateful to have had such a strong powerful woman and mother to look up to. I have been lucky to have known what my passion was from a young age, to pursue that passion and to love what I do. I hope to set that example of hard work and dedication for my children, as my mother did for me. My children inspire me to be the best version of myself. I hope that I may set the same example for them that my mother did for me.
How do you carve out time for yourself in the week while juggling your family and work schedule?
I think any mother will tell you that as soon as you have children, your needs suddenly come last. I always try to be home for the boys’ dinner and bedtime, but I try to squeeze in regular workouts with my trainer and lunches with friends to maintain my sanity! Once the children are sleeping, my husband and I get to have our date nights and some quality time, which is also essential.
Who are your favorite emerging designers right now?
KHAITE and Brock Collection. Both happen to be brands that I work with and adore :)
How do you select the brands that you invest in?
I look for brands that have staying power and growth potential, who are developing new concepts in interesting categories and filling a gap in the market. I do not look for trend driven brands or anything too "of the moment."
The Apartment by The Line was such a creative, innovative concept for fashion, what inspired you to open? How do you find the brands you carry in the store?
The concept for The Line was to bridge the gap between online and offline so establishing a brick and mortar space from the time of launch was instantly very important to us. I wanted to create a space where we could really tell a story and show products as they are intended to be seen and used in the context of someone’s life and home. It became clear that the only way for this to truly feel authentic was if we were to literally build out the store in a home setting. I will never forget when I arrived at the store on the evening of our launch party, the elevator doors opened and I did a double take as I thought I was accidentally walking into someone’s apartment; it was at that moment that I knew we had truly created something special and unique.
You clearly have a great eye, what have been your favorite childrens' clothing designers since becoming a Mama?
I have to say I didn’t think that I would have this much fun dressing boys! I am very traditional in my taste when it comes to children’s clothes and I love the boy’s clothes from Marie Chantal, Il Gufo and Bonpoint. The Tot also has a wonderful assortment of clothes and goodies with a wide range of styles.
What is your favorite family vacation destination?
We escape to the Hamptons on the weekends and it is such a special place for us where we can really unwind, relax and have quality time as a family. We also love to visit my family in California and my husband’s family in Europe so the boys can have time with their grandparents and extended family.
What values do you hope to instill in your children?
I hope they will be kind, compassionate, curious, empathetic, passionate, driven, open, loving… I could go on and on!
Mama-of-the-Moment: Le Catch's Marlien Rentmeester
Describe yourself in 4 words...
Mother, wife, sister and friend.
What was your initial inspiration for Le Catch?
My friends! They would always compliment my outfits and ask me to buy one of everything that I bought myself, so I essentially created Le Catch to provide that service and curation. I also love to write, and when I was working as Lucky Magazine's West Coast Editor, I had so many ideas up my sleeve, stories and other things to share that simply would not all fit in a 1X per month magazine format, and thought it would be wise to monetize my own content.
What distinguishes your site from others out there?
Le Catch represents me and my singular taste. I'm not beholden to advertising, freeing me up to write about what I truly love. I also believe there are not many experienced fashion editors who are "self-publishing," and I feel that gives me an edge.
How did motherhood help in making the leap from Lucky to Le Catch?
It actually worked the other way around: Le Catch ameliorated, complemented, and supported young motherhood in providing me a creative outlet, a lucrative, do-anywhere, do-anytime business and personal autonomy. It was, and remains one of the best gifts I have made for myself.
Since you are the expert, what are your 5 must-have pieces for Fall/Winter?
An oversized, chunky sweater; white ankle boots, a tweed menswear-inspired blazer; a perfectly-fitting white t-shirt, and a statement coat.
Who are your favorite up and coming designers?
Johanna Ortiz
Doen
Amur
La Double J
Saloni
What is your favorite part of the job? Do you have a team who comes to your home office, or do you work on the site alone?
No doubt, the thrill of the hunt. Finding that online pot of gold everyday and sharing it! I work alone for the most part, but I hit up my husband, a tech entrepreneur, for business-related issues and top editing! (He actually built my initial website! He has multiple talents!)
What is your mantra?
Follow your heart.
What are your favorite activities with your children both in LA and in NYC?
In LA: Biking around our neighborhood, surfing in Malibu, swimming in our pool, and hanging out at the beach. In NYC: walking around the city (kids have skateboards on hand), restaurant-hopping, remote control sailboats in Central Park, miniature golf in Tribeca.
What values do you hope to instill in your children?
I hope that they will always be kind and helpful and to be grateful for what they have.
Mama-of-the-Moment: Bobbi Brown
Describe yourself in 3 words...
Nice, Quick, and Passionate.
How have your 3 children inspired you in your career?
They have inspired me in so many ways. My oldest son Dylan created the website for the George Hotel that my husband and I just opened, and he is very analytical. My middle son Dakota named the Extra line from Bobbi Brown Cosmetics when he was 8-years-old. He now is the strategic marketing genius. My youngest Duke is the visual one, who has published photos that were used at Yahoo Beauty, Bobbi Brown Cosmetics, and now my new company Beauty Evolution.
How did you decide to launch your beauty brand? Please share your start-up story...
I never intended to have a big beauty brand. I started as make-up artist with a simple style and philosophy that women should look like themselves. I couldn’t buy any products off the rack that didn’t need to be blended or fixed. I made natural looking lipsticks and they hit a nerve, changing makeup that was popular at the time.
What differentiates you in the beauty business and how do you feel about the new wave of natural, non-toxic beauty?
Since leaving the brand, I have transitioned almost exclusively to non-toxic beauty. There are some great options out there.
You are an author many times over, a beauty editor, and founded your own wildly successful beauty brand, not to mention a Mother of 3. How do you balance all of it? How do you carve out time for yourself and how do you spend that time?
Who said I balanced anything ever? Not possible. My husband is my partner in everything, and has been my mentor and biggest supporter.
Pay it forward and name 3 mentors in your field whom you admire...
Mickey Drexler, Leonard Lauder and Bonnie Maller.
What’s the next step for you in your career? Will you create more beauty brands? Write more books? Go into a new field?
I started a lifestyle brand name Beauty Evolution, which includes a hotel named The George in Montclair, New Jersey, a wellness line named EVOLUTION_18, and I’ve created a editorial website justBobbi.com for all things wellness, beauty, travel and everything in between. I have alas reignited my makeup artist career by going back into the studio. I never say never to anything.
What is your personal beauty regimen?
I am so low maintenance. I color my hair every two weeks, and get a quick blow out for shoots and events. The rest of the time it is ponytails and I have an unmade face with just a bit of concealer and blush. I do get lasers on occasion, which helps to even out my skin. I’m all about eating a healthy diet as I believe beauty starts from the inside out.
What are your favorite family activities to do with your kids in NYC?
Now that they are grown up and all of them foodies, we meet often for dinner and drinks.
What values do you hope to instill in your children?
Goodness, family, hard work, compassion, passion and fun.
Jack’s Gems - Keepsakes
I’m not sure about you, but my kids bring home piles of artwork everyday from school, and then continue to create more masterpieces at home in their free time. It seemed like their art was all over my apartment, the kitchen, bedrooms, my bedside tables, and on the dining table. Wherever I looked, I saw paper! While they happen to make some really beautiful paintings and drawings, sometimes I get the package of white paper stapled together with a small line sketched on a random corner. You must be able to relate! Some may call it abstract, but I call it clutter. I’ve finally found someone to take all of these beautiful and unusual artworks, and turn them into incredible hardcover scrapbooks to store and document every single piece. It’s called Jack’s Gems, and it’s genius! Jackie customizes as many books as you need to keep all of that art organized and intact. They are the best gifts, and best way to go back through your child’s art archives without a mess.
Read moreMama-of-the-Moment: Gabby Karan De Felice
Describe yourself in 3 words…
Create a community about family and friends, creative, nurturing.
How have your children inspired you in your career?
My mom inspired me to realize that I wanted to create an environment for others, and so I, as a mother, wanted to create a space for our family and friends to come together.
How did you decide to open Tutto il Giorno?
Tutto il Giorno was born of a love story. While I was on a decor assignment in southern Italy, I met my husband Gianpaolo. We fell in love, married, and settled in my hometown New York City, and the Hamptons. Gianpaolo loved Sag Harbor, which reminded him of his fishing village back home, and all that was missing was his mother's home-style Italian cooking. So while biking one day with his good friend David Mayer, they imagined a Hamptons restaurant that served Nona Carolina's fresh food under the open sky. They vowed to make this dream happen, and in 2007 we opened our first location.
The restaurant business can be very difficult, however you seem to have a lot of success with your spaces. What is your secret recipe for success?
We wanted to create an environment that is chic and intimate. A space that married art with culture. It's secret sauce is it's great staff and their passion for the restaurant. In every great business, the people that support you, are the ones that make your dreams come true.
Pay it forward and name a few of the other favorite restaurants you typically go to with your family.
Same restaurants we have been going for years: Bar Pitti, Indochine, and the kids love Nobu.
What is your favorite family vacation to date?
Our favorite vacations are our holidays in Turks and Caicos, our second home. Spending our days on long walks, swimming, biking, boating, and cooking with our family and friends.
What are your favorite activities to do with your children in the Hamptons?
Both my children are so different, so we share with them different special moments. For Stefania, I love hanging at the barn with her watching her ride, and watching her with her friends. With Sebastian, I love hanging at home and cooking. He makes the best desserts, and always makes us laugh.
What values do you hope to instill in your children?
Compassion, caring, and giving. As my mom taught me, it's not about the "me" but about the "we."
Where can our readers learn more about your restaurant?
We have locations in Southhampton, Sag Harbor, and in Tribeca. You can learn more about our restaurants on our website and follow us on Instagram.
MAMA-OF-THE-MOMENT: Rebecca Minkoff
Describe yourself in 3 words...
Brave, hardworking, loyal, caring.
How did you get started? Explain the process of starting your own apparel and accessory brand.
I started my brand in 2001. After launching a capsule collection that landed me on “The Tonight Show,” my bags became an overnight success. In 2005, my “Morning After Bag” ignited my career as a handbag designer. In 2009, I introduced my first ready-to-wear collection. Today, I design not only handbags and accessories, but also footwear, jewelry, watches, as well as a men’s clothing under the Uri Minkoff label.
What inspired you to create your own handbag and apparel business?
I decided if I was going to work this hard, then it better be me answering to myself at the end of the day.
You have grown rapidly, and now have a very established, well-known brand. What would you say attributes to brand longevity?
Persistence, not taking no for an answer, connecting with your customer and listening to her.
How have your children impacted your brand?
My children have made me become stronger and more focused. I hope I am a role model and an inspiration to my children. I want to set an example for them and inspire them to always follow their dreams. Having them also made me a hyper multitasker and also forced me to rely on my team for what they are there to do.
What is the greatest challenge of balancing mom life and work life? What tips can you provide our readers who struggle with this?
I don’t think the work/life balance is something you can magically achieve. I often say that balance is a term that was made up to make women feel inadequate for not achieving it. I think it’s about juggling and knowing what you’re comfortable with. And then knowing that once you figure that out, you don’t go beyond that. It’s about finding the ebbs and flows about how your life goes. Ultimately, balance is the goal, but not always realistic. For me, I want to walk my kid to school every morning. That means we don’t have meetings with me until 9:30 a.m. Or I won’t leave my kids for more than 5 days or they come with me. It’s those give and takes that are unique to each mother that she must explore for herself.
What are your favorite children’s clothing shops?
Monica and Andy, Sapling Child.
What are your favorite online sites for children?
Abcmouse for screen time and they learn as well.
What are your favorite Hamptons kid’s activities in the summer time?
- Hanging out in our backyard by the pool is the best.
- Going to the beach.
- We love to cook and bbq so a perfect day is the pool, bike ride to beach, following by a big family meal outside.
What values do you hope to instill in your children?
Courage, compassion, independence, hardworking, grateful, and kindness.
MAMA-OF-THE-MOMENT: Dahlia Selva CEO, Stephanie Roy-Heckl
Describe yourself in 3 words...
- Candid
- Determined
- Confident
How have your children inspired you to launch your own brand?
Having children changes your perspective on virtually everything. I felt this change the minute I was pregnant with my first. My business partner Danilo Giordano and I have been talking for years about launching a footwear brand together. I thought to myself: why am I working for others when I can build something for my children? Something I’m passionate about, something I believe in. Something they can be proud of one day. I hope to be a role model and an inspiration to by children, setting an example to always go after their dreams.
What has been your biggest challenge in motherhood to date?
My patience. At first, I had a hard time accepting that when spending time with my daughter, I can’t do anything else. Which is hard when you are launching a business because your brain is constantly working! I know that she could feel my disconnection. What I learned is that even when you are overwhelmed with several things, the key is to focus on one thing at a time. You can’t multitask when spending time with your children. Now when I spend time with them – I do it actively and consciously. Quality over quantity.
What are your favorite new baby products to hit the market?
A French children’s skincare line called MINOIS. I am completely obsessed with the texture, quality and smell of their products.
Pay it forward and tell us a few of your favorite shoe designers?
Of course, my favorite shoe designer is my business partner and Creative Director Danilo Giordano! His designs are so feminine and emotional – they just make you feel special when you wear them.
I love Gianvito Rossi for a simple and elegant look. Golden Goose sneakers to run around on weekends.
And Malone Souliers. They have a strong identity and make beautiful shoes with a twist.
What is your favorite shoe brand for children?
Elephantito for shoes and sandals; Superga for sneakers.
What is your favorite family vacation destination?
The South of France. My husband is French as his parents live there so we spend some time there every summer with my brothers- and sisters-in-law and their 11 children. The air, the light, the colors, the smell – it’s such a special place!
What are your go-to activities with your children in the Hamptons this summer? Any favorite classes?
Can’t beat the beach and a pool filled with floaties! When we want to take them for a walk we love the Walking Dunes trail in Amagansett and LongHouse Reserve in East Hampton. And of course, the Children’s Museum in Bridgehampton, when it rains. I also love to take the kids to the sunset Fridays and Saturdays at Wölffer Estate.
How did you find the process of setting up a new business? What advice would you give to women who are looking to become entrepreneurs?
I was completely clueless at the beginning. As confident as I was in regards to our vision and my knowledge of the industry – setting up a business was a whole other animal. I worked in corporate for very large companies my entire career – setting up a business was far from anything I had learned.
Do we opt for an LLC or a corporation? Where and how do I register the business? The legal aspect, trademarks, accounting, IT, logistics – you name it! I knew nothing about these things! My husband helped us write the business plan and I asked a lot of my entrepreneurial friends how they started their businesses. I asked them for recommendations and guidance. And somehow it just all fell into place. Listen to your gut and believe in yourself. Know your strengths and weaknesses. It’s a lot of work, but unbelievably rewarding. After all, it’s YOURS.
What is your mantra?
Don’t dream your life. Live your dream.
What values do you hope to instill in your children?
To be grateful, open-minded, curious, confident, kind, determined, considerate, just and honest.
MAMA-OF-THE-MOMENT: Fabiola Beracasa
Describe yourself in 3 words...
- Creative
- Inquisitive
- Empathetic
How have your boys inspired you to do all this great philanthropic work?
Having children has further galvanized what I’ve always believed to be true: “there’s is no such thing as other people’s children” when I look at my children, I see the preciousness and worth of all children. It’s that boundless love and appreciation for my boys that drives me to stand up for humanity.
What are your favorite family activities in NYC and the Hamptons?
We enjoy doing things as a family, especially when it’s about exposing the kids to new things. With so many to choose from, going to museums in the city is always a fun family activity.
- The Children’s Museum
- The Moma
- National Museum of Mathematics
- The Brooklyn Museum
- The Met
In the Hamptons we like to spend a lot of time outdoors some of our favorite are
- Picnics
- Paddle Boarding in Montauk
- Pony Rides at Rita Stables
- Soccer on the Lawn
- Looking for Worms and Bugs
- Swimming
- Fire Pit Marshmallow Roasting
What has been your most memorable family vacation to date?
That’s a hard one, Jason and I like to take our kids with us everywhere (even business trips when possible) so that means we have lots of great family trip memories. But recently we took a family trip to Iceland and did many unique and fun things like get in hot springs, walk behind a waterfall, watch a geyser in action, snowmobile on a glacier, see a volcano, and during the whole week we were there the sun never set, That was pretty wild!
You wear so many hats, being Mama, producing film and artist/brand collaboration, co-owning The Hole art gallery, and devoting yourself to many philanthropic efforts, how do you carve out “me time?” How do like to spend that time?
The truth is all the things I do are “me time” I have had the great luxury of choosing my path/career in life. I am grateful for the privilege of being able to do what I love everyday.
Who are your favorite artists for children’s bedrooms?
We like to expose our boys to all kinds of artists/art and teach them early how to interact with the works so they can enjoy art through all the stages of their lives. Having said that there is a great website I like to use called Artstar, Little Collector that really curates kid-friendly works by great artists.
What values do you hope to instill in your children?
I hope to support and nurture our boys to be the best version of themselves, whatever that looks like. As parents we want to teach our children how to navigate in the world with:
- Self Love
- Critical Thinking
- Kindness
- Inclusion
- Empathy
- Determination
- Curiosity
- Creativity
- The Ability to Listen
- Self Awareness
What’s your mantra?
Change the way you look at things and the things you look at will change.
MAMA-OF-THE-MOMENT: Marie Chantal
Describe yourself in 3 words...
Brave, fiercely loyal, compassionate.
How did being a mother inspire you to create your own children’s collection?
Whilst I was pregnant with my third, I had this incredible drive to work and create a beautiful brand for children. When my son was born, he had the most incredible head of silver blond hair and looked like an angel cherub. I set about designing an Angel wing onesie and the brand was created ! I wanted it to be a beautiful brand of classic, fun, contemporary clothes for children.
What are your go-to clothing stores for your own children?
My children are grown now and very fashion conscious, but when they were little, it was me me and me.
What was your most memorable family vacation destination to date?
We just came back this week from Vienna where I brought the two eldest ones, Olympia (21) and Constantine (19). All the elder cousins were there with us as were my sisters and parents. So fun to keep the family close! Next year we will add in the little ones, as they were missed.
What are your favorite kid-friendly restaurants both in London and New York?
I have a Chinese favorite in London called Yautcha in SoHo, super kid-friendly with a beautiful Aquarium filled with little Nemo fish. And in New York, the city of food, we have been discovering favorites like Balthazar, Ludlow House and Sidel's.
What was the greatest challenge of starting your own brand?
Initiating the dream. Getting it started with a proper understanding of the challenges of retail.... The design is one thing, but the supply chain and quality control is something else. I use the mantra "Retail is Detail," and boy is the Devil is in the detail!
You have 5 children, and a booming business, how do you carve out time for yourself? How do you prefer to spend that time?
I love to prioritize and carve out time spent with the kids big or small. I have a 21 year old daughter and four boys, the youngest being 9. I read to him almost every night as not only do I love reading to him, but it’s true quality time. I’m out maybe three nights a week, as it’s important to set time with kids as they appreciate it so much and it pays off.
Since you’re an expert having raised 5 children, what is your best advice to mothers?
Keep a calm home as kids learn through Osmosis...and energy is picked up! Also, kids imprint on behavior. So always pay attention to how you behave especially around children.
What is your mantra?
Keep calm and carry on with a smile.
What values do you hope to instill in your children?
I want them to be independent and be the best that they can be. I tell them all the time to be what they want to be but with a contribution to humanity and to this beautiful earth!
MAMA-OF-THE-MOMENT: Lesley Thompson Vecsler
What is your newest business venture and how has being a Mama inspired you to start your own company?
My new business consults companies on public relations strategies, marketing, digital outreach and events, with the goal of increasing visibility, driving sales and building brand awareness. There are so many growing and dynamic companies, designers and entrepreneurs with great ideas, and for a long time, I had thought how exciting it would be to collaborate with a variety of brands. I had the most incredible experience leading public relations for Louis Vuitton for so many years. I traveled the world and worked with the most creative and innovative people in fashion and business. I had the privilege of representing the brand under legendary designers Marc Jacobs and Nicolas Ghesquière. But it was time to venture out on my own.
A major part of my motivation to take the step to create my own business was my kids. With my own business I have the ability to have more control of my schedule and spend more time with them during these precious years. One day shortly after I started my company I walked into my apartment in the middle of the day and my 2 year old daughter squealed and said “I’m so happy to see you Mommy”. My heart melted and I knew everything was right!
What is your mantra?
“Have courage and be kind” It’s from Cinderella and is not only incredibly sweet it really rings true to me in all aspects of life.
What is your favorite part of handling PR and marketing?
PR and Marketing is essentially story telling. I love bringing a brand or product to life through a variety of avenues whether it’s a newspaper, magazine, website, photo shoot, fashion show, experience or event. My favorite part of my new business is working with a variety of clients, meeting these individuals and learning about them, their business model, and the inspiration behind their brands. In order to be the best story teller you need to fully understand the history and passion that goes into each business or product.
Name three women who inspire you.
My mother of course. Being a mom I think back on so many experiences in my childhood that had parallels to what I experience now with my kids and I realize how challenging a job it can be and how good she was at it. She’s been my guiding light as I navigate the crazy journey of motherhood.
My dear friend Chelsea Clinton. I admire how her whole life she has handled herself with dignity, determination and a sincere desire and effort to make the world a better place.
Heather Vandenberghe hired me at Louis Vuitton and has always been an inspiration for me as a working woman and mom.
You have been a busy business woman with Louis Vuitton for 14 years, and are a Mom of 2, how do you carve out “me time?” How do you prefer to spend this time?
Ever since my kids I am not sure what “me time” is! Haha. Seriously it’s challenging to find time but I try to get up extra early as often as I can to do yoga with my trainer. It really relaxes me and helps me start the day. For this summer I have set a goal to read more - I used to love reading books!
What are your favorite kid’s activities in the Hamptons?
Hands down...kids parties and Sunday night family dinners at the Millers!
Sunset bonfires at Mecox Cut
Berry picking at Seven Ponds Orchard
Ice cream at Candy Kitchen in Bridgehampton
What values do you hope to instill in your children?
Courage and compassion (back to my mantra) inner strength, dedication, integrity, respect, gratitude, tolerance and vision.
MAMA-OF-THE-MOMENT: Sally Pressman
Myself in 3 words
- Honest
- Loyal
- Bold
Balance between acting and family
Acting is an all or nothing career. You’re either working your bottom off or you are in the midst of (sometimes needed, sometimes not) down time. The way I balance my work with my family is making sure that when I am not working, I am fully present with my husband and son and putting time with them above everything else. David and I do not have a nanny, so when we are not working, we are both there front and center with Josh. And when we are working, we do our best to split up Josh’s care between the two of us. Letting your family know that they come first in all of your downtime is a very important message.
Favorite kid-friendly weekend activities
Oh man, I am going to try and limit my answer here, because I could write a book on this question! The Farmer’s Market is one of our absolute favorite weekend activities. I am literally in heaven there and being able to share that experience with my son, who now has an appreciation for farm fresh and local, is invaluable. We also live near Griffith Park in Los Angeles. Within a ten minute drive we can access the LA Zoo, Travel Town (a train lover’s dream), the Merry-Go-Round and countless incredible parks. We also love exploring museums like LACMA, The Natural History Museum and The Science Museum. We are lucky because LA really has everything a kid could dream of.
Favorite Kid-Friendly Restaurants
I honestly find most restaurants are kid friendly enough, if you just go early! Some of our tippy top favorites are John and Vinny’s for pizza and literally anything. Messhall Kitchen which is a 3 minute drive and our local spot. Mexico City is also right near us and makes some MEAN guac. Kettle Black makes probably the best pasta in all the land. And if Mama is feeling like she needs a glass of wine, a salad, a yummy dessert with a girlfriend while the kids play and do crafts, Au Fudge is not to be missed.
Becoming a mom and my acting career
First, in terms of my acting, it has made me a much better actor. As an actor, you most often are expanding on feelings and experiences you have had in real life. Being a mom opens you to a whole new world, that until you are a mom you couldn’t possibly understand. Being a mom makes you vulnerable in a way you never were before. It has allowed me to access emotion that was never as readily available. As I sit with my son watching “How To Train Your Dragon” for the millionth time, the swelling music as the hero soars for the first time on the dragon…bawling. That depth of emotion, that vulnerability that understanding of what it really means to put someone and their needs head and shoulders above you and yours has enhanced my acting ability exponentially.
Second, in terms of the jobs I take, having a child who is about to start Kindergarten, those projects that are in some remote part of the world for years? Those projects are not options for me or my husband anymore. We often joke ‘well, if it’s one of the Steven’s (Soderbergh or Spielberg)…’. Meaning, of course, there are extenuating circumstances, and career opportunities you just can’t turn down. And with everything, you cross that bridge when you come to it, and decide case by case weighing all the options.
Favorite family vacation
Two summers ago, we went to Greece with some of our best friends. It was perfect. We did a day in Athens. We rented a house on a small beach island called Paros. Then we stayed in a hotel in Santorini. And we ended our trip in a hotel on a cliff in Mykonos. The other family had a 3 year old who Josh had known since they were four months. And the mom and I are best friends. It was truly magical and beautiful and fun beyond words. And to be able to show my son GREECE! At age 3! There is truly nothing better. I will remember that trip for the rest of my life. Pretty sure we all will.
“Me Time”
What is “me time”? Haha, just kidding. My real “me time” indulgence that my husband and son know is non-negotiable is my Tracy Anderson workout. It’s 1-2 hours, 6 days a week. My husband is amazingly supportive of this time for me. He knows I need it. And he also knows how much nicer a person I am when I can have that time. So really, he knows HE needs it. I don’t really need or want to ask for any more “me time” than that. It helps me feel good about myself and helps me be the wife and mother I want to be.
Values for my son
Kindness, compassion, love. I want my son, first and foremost, to be a good person who treats everyone like equals NO MATTER WHAT. I want him to instinctively take care of and help others. After that, I want him to feel confident to try and fail. I want him to take risks. I want him to fight for what he wants. And I want him to always want to cuddle with Mama…no? That probably wouldn’t be good in actuality, but right now it sure sounds nice.
Mommy mentors
Oh MAN, there are truly so many. My own mother is the first that comes to mind. She is the most fierce, loving, protecting mom in the world. Next, one of my best friends, Tracy Anderson. No one works harder and does more for her children. No one. Every one of my friends who is a mommy, I admire, look up to and learn from. Every single one, in different ways. And to those of my friends who are reading this: I love you, I am inspired by you, I am in awe of you, and let’s go get a glass of wine, k?
Family Portraits With Claudine Williams Photography - Magic Moments
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Who doesn’t love a great family photograph for Mother’s Day!? I always love receiving photos as gifts, as I often get lazy when it comes to printing my own. Documenting life is so incredibly important. Photos are a big part of our legacy, the images that are passed down through generations, making beautiful memories come to life! We found a very special, artful photographer, Claudine Williams, and she has quite an eye. Her vision for family portraits is specific, and catered to the individual family. Claudine works quickly, which is a must when dealing with children and husbands, and she knows to have snacks on stand by! Her images are so soft and ethereal, and she truly captures the various personalities in the photograph. Take a look at our Mother’s Day photos and book a shoot for your family while she still has availability.
Read moreLyft Car Seat Mode - City Kids
When I first had kids, for a long time, I was terrified of taking them anywhere. I stuck to my neighborhood like glue and just took my babies out anywhere that was within walking distance. We all know I can walk for miles, so that was not really an issue. However, the grandparents on the Upper East Side were never seeing us!
Nowadays, we are so lucky to have car services like Lyft, who give the option to select a car that comes with a car seat installed and arrives right to your doorstep! The past few years, I’ve used various apps to try out different options, and Lyft was always the most reliable, and above all, had the most responsible drivers. It’s really important to feel safe in the car with your kids, and it’s also very convenient to have a car seat properly installed to ensure that safety. Thank you for the consistently great ride, Lyft! Use code MAMAANDTATA for $5 off your next Lyft car seat ride!
MAMA-OF-THE-MOMENT: Emma Heming Willis, Creator of CocoBaba
Describe yourself in 3 words...
Organized, professional, and a great multi-tasker.
What inspired you to create CocoBaba?
The idea came to me in a very organic way. I was pregnant with my first child and looking for beauty products designed especially for moms-to-be that used safe, natural ingredients. I wanted something that would help stave off stretch marks as much as possible. I realized that most products didn’t meet my needs. I became acutely aware of what I was putting in and on my body, and how it could affect my unborn child as well as myself. I decided to create my own skin line whose ingredients I would oversee and make certain met my criteria. There needed to be a product in the market that was safe and simple for moms-to-be who are conscious about their health and beauty routine and products they use.
What is coming up in the pipeline for your business?
Launching CocoBaba in the US is our next big move. CocoBaba is produced and manufactured in Germany and currently only sold within Europe. I wanted to start small and to be able to iron out any kinks before bringing it stateside. So, I’m more than ready to get to this point, which is a truly exciting next step for me.
What is your personal skincare routine?
Being a working mom of two, my skincare routine needs to be easy but effective. I start with Lumion’s Oxygen mist and Serum, then I alternate Dr. Barbara Sturm products and UMA Oils. I love Sturm’s Glow Drops and I adore UMA’s anti-aging oil. These three beauty lines are my total go-to must-haves.
What skincare products do you prefer to use on your children?
I use Honest Co. for my daughter’s hair and body in the shower. For after shower creams, I alternate between my CocoBaba products. Sometimes I use the Coconut Body Oil if they seem on the drier side or the Coconut Body Butter Mousse. My youngest Evelyn, usually requests the oil because she knows she’ll get a little massage out of it.
What is your favorite family vacation destination?
We usually head to Turks and Caicos. It’s a place my husband has been going to for 20 years and now as a couple I’ve been going there for 11 years. We never get tired out it. It’s very serene, great people, terrific food, and not to mention the scenery. Our family is all about a beach holiday.
What are your favorite kid-friendly restaurants in New York?
My husband and I love sushi so we were hoping our kids would follow suit, so we introduced sushi to them early on. We started taking them to Nobu, which is a fun restaurant as they love to sit close to the sushi bar and watch it being made. There’s a lot of hustle and bustle, which makes it all the more fun and entertaining for them. We frequent Rosa Mexicana, as the kids love seeing the guacamole being made, and it’s delicious. Next on the list is Benihana, but my gosh is that place popular—hard to get a reservation!
What are your most memorable family activities on weekends?
We live about an hour out of the city so most of our weekends are spent in the city. We love going to all the usual museums—Natural History, Children’s Museum, and The Met. My kids are at a great age that we are introducing them to Broadway. We took them to see The Lion King, which is just such a beautiful play. We are taking them to see Aladdin for Mabel’s 6th birthday, which is coming up way too soon! We live close to Central Park, so when the weather is nice we are always there.
What values do you hope to instill in your children?
There’s so many aren’t there? We have a saying at home—speak freely, live fearlessly. I want my kids to know that their voice is important.
Where can our readers learn more about you and CocoBaba?
They can visit CocoBaba or my personal website.
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BKLYN KIDS MKT: Free Arts NYC + City Point’s Earth Day
Right across the bridge, with a low-key, earthy vibe, Brooklyn is expanding and evolving with the times. What better way to celebrate Earth Day, than with a fun-filled day of activities and shopping with the entire family? I co-hosted City Point’s #BKLYNKIDSMKT over the weekend and fell in love with this indoor complex of cute shops and amazing food stands (plus, a Target and Trader Joe’s!).
In addition to the kids market, Free Arts NYC teamed up with animator Mike Perry and Korean Corner USA to create the largest 100% recyclable maze in the U.S. where kids could run and play for hours. There was also a face painting stand, large drawing wall, and fun planting projects. When it came to shopping, we found booths with the sweetest children’s clothing from Oeuf, Yoya, Petit Pilou, Love Me Baby, Sammy and Nat, and Sat Nam Bebe. There were also stands of unicorn toys and accessories from Brooklyn Owl, and the greatest new organic baby food company, Little Spoon. I loved the all natural beauty brand products made at Boheme Luxe beauty, particularly their face and body glow! This was a fun-filled day you would not want to miss!
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As parents, we go through so many first times, so many new experiences, and there’s no rule book for what can arise in this journey. We are all unique in our family dynamic, with no two families the same. Therefore, what’s good for one, may not work for another, and we are in for a long haul of trial and error. We can all be grateful for Little House Calls, founded by two brilliant psychologists Dr. Alison Locker and Dr. Rebecca Hershberg, who provide expert help along the way. These women take a very hands-on approach to tackling all of the various parental struggles, and as parents, they also have the personal experience to back up their methods. Whatever the issue may be, these women go into the home and/or school for observations so that they can manage the behaviors as they are occurring in real-time. They typically can solve the problems in short term sessions, allowing parents to re-work the way they view the situation, and therefore re-work their reactions. Rebecca and Alison believe in love and limits, which I found particularly intriguing. They think in this era, with all of the hyper parenting, we are constantly going and doing, instead of sitting back and being present. They told me it’s been scientifically proven that if each parent spent five minutes of quality time with their children everyday of the week, it is far more meaningful and effective than planning these major events to attend together over the weekend. So, stop exhausting yourselves with all of the run around, and stay put. Consistency and quality over quantity!
Read moreMAMA-OF-THE-MOMENT: Siri Daly, food blogger and author of Siriously Delicious
How did your passion for cooking develop?
As long as I can remember, food has been something that has brought my family together. Whether it was gathering in the kitchen as my mom cooked dinner, eating a pancake feast my dad whipped up on the weekends, or baking cookies with my grandma, cooking was a consistent activity we did together. In addition to those happy memories, I've always loved the creative process that's behind developing recipes and, of course, the result being delicious food to eat!
What are your favorite recipes for family dinners?
I make a lot of roasted chicken because everybody loves it and there's usually leftovers to put in sandwiches or salads the next day. We do salmon probably once a week (because Carson makes it - break for me!) and I'm a huge fan of anything in the slow cooker to make family dinner nights fast and easy.
What are your top recipes for entertaining?
I love customizable recipes, like tacos or the Baked Potato Bar that's in my book, because it allows large groups to build meals around their own preferences. Also, what's better than a big pan of comforting lasagna or casserole that can feed an army?!
What is your guilty pleasure?
Probably greasy, Chinese take-out. Beef and broccoli, crispy egg rolls, fried rice...this is the kind of food I want to eat in my pajamas with control over the television, preferably alone.
What is your favorite family vacation?
Every summer we spend time in Orange County, California, right on the beach, with family and friends. It's the one time of year that Carson and I truly unwind. I read books, paint rocks (truth), play with my kids and cook a lot of seafood. Sometimes we even lock our phones in a drawer! Can you imagine?!
What is your best advice for other Mamas?
No judgment and no comparisons! In this age of social media, it's easy to get distracted with other people and to assume someone's life is better or worse than our own. The truth is, we are all in this together, and we are all trying to do the best we can. It always helps me to remember that I'm not alone, that so many other moms have felt the way I'm feeling in any given situation. And here we go, but I'm going to say it...life goes by so fast! We blink and our kids are grown-ups, so if we can pause a few times each day to take it all in, we'll be better moms for it.
How do your children inspire your cooking?
I'm always searching for healthy, adaptable meals for their growing bodies and picky palates. Nothing is more annoying than being a short order cook, so I try to stick to dinners that can easily be tweaked to please everyone. Sometimes my son comes home and requests certain things, which always helps to pull me out of a food rut!
Are your children picky eaters? What’s your tip for picky eaters?
Um, yes. My younger two are worse than my older one. As he's gotten older, he's willing to try more foods, which makes me ridiculously happy. As for the girls, I just keep trying different things, as well as the same things, over and over and over. Eventually they might change their mind and decide to try it. Even like it?! When that doesn’t work, I'm not above sneaking food into their diets. My Sneaky One-Pot Mexican Pasta is a great recipe for that, as it's loaded with healthy squash (shh, don't tell my kids).
How do you like to spend time as a family?
We love to play games. In fact, almost every night around the dinner table we play either 20 Questions, Concentration or Telephone. We love having "movie nights" where I pop popcorn on the stove (and they smother it with Parmesan cheese). And we love to be outside, particularly when the weather is nice (because cold weather makes me...cold). Golf, hanging at the beach, family walks around the block, etc. Mostly, our family time revolves around big barbecues with friends because, food!
When you go out to eat with the family, what are your favorite restaurants?
Sushi is definitely our go-to as it's my son's favorite food. The girls stick to udon noodles and edamame, but my son loves a lot of sashimi. We also love Mexican restaurants, particularly because we lived in California for so long where we were surrounded by great spots.
Please share your favorite recipes from your new book...
This is a hard question, because I truly love everything, but some of my favorites include the Open-Faced Green Breakfast Sandwich, the Greek Nachos, the Buffalo Chicken Meatballs and the Homemade Girl Scout Cookies.
What values or lessons do you hope to instill in your children?
I hope they value hard work, I hope they are always honest and above all, kind, kind, KIND. Mostly, I want them to be happy, and to be the best versions of themselves.
Check out Siriously Delicious cookbook available now: https://www.amazon.com/Siriously-Delicious-Nutritious-Simple-Recipes/dp/0848755804
MAMA-OF-THE-MOMENT: Elisabeth Holder, co-president of Ladurée
How would you describe yourself in 3 words?
Intuitive, tenacious, curious
What was your inspiration behind Laduree?
Laduree was created more than 150 years ago, so when my family bought it we had the story and the dna — it was a sleeping beauty we kissed and helped grew. My oldest brother (chairman) does an amazing job with the brand since 25 years now, and my husband and myself, we develop the US market with the same DNA and I have to say that we add a small local touch and a bit of modernity
How do you balance your career and family life?
I don’t balance, it’s only one thing for me, working with my father, brothers and husband, how could I balance ? even my kids are involved
How do you involve your children in your work?
They love to come to visit the chef in the lab, I ask them what they think about the new products, or even sometimes we brainstorm about ideas and naturally they ask me to relate my day. I bring them to France in February, first thing my son ask me “can we go to visit Daddy (my father), I want him to teach me how to bake bread”
What are your favorite places to dine when in Paris?
Le petit Lutetia for the ambiance, le 21, la Corte and next one to discover will be Balagan
We love the whimsical aesthetic.
What are your favorite French shops for children?
Thanks :) Bonpoint of course and almost exclusively ! Finger in the Nose for tee-shirt and jeans, SIxPiedsTroisPouces for the shoes and Petit Bateau for the underwear, only white
What is your favorite family vacation?
Being with my family. We just bought a house in the Hamptons, my dreamhouse, I love, LOVE spending time there. And actually my boys at this age are really interested in discovering new countries, new cultures so every new adventure is exciting
What are your favorite kid’s clothing designers?
Christine Innamorato at Bonpoint
What is your best advice for a new mama?
It is not a question of quantity, the time I share with my kids is all about quality : no phone, being in the present time with them, share with them what I like to do and also accompany them in their own activities and what they like
What is your favorite family weekend activity or excursion?
Biking, sport in general and cooking of course ! and something cultural, theatre, gallery, museum or library.
Who are your favorite vendors to work with for parties in Laduree?
We just did the Chocolate festival with Valrhona – who does not like chocolate?
What values or lessons do you hope to instill in your children?
Courage, curiosity and kindness